My German family

I have a “German family”. I have known the Ewerszumrodes since 2004 when they hosted me when I interned in Cologne. I spent time with them again in 2005 when I did a follow-up internship in Frankfurt.

I had no connections to or knowledge of Germany before 2004. Based on clichés, I was expecting a distant or transactional relationship with my hosts. But nothing could be further from the truth. The Ewerszumrodes are warm and generous. I don’t remember paying for anything whenever we went out. Mr Ewerszumrode would never let me go to bed without first having a few Apfelwein (apple wine) and beers with him. And their two sons (about the same age as me) took me out with them all the time.

My meeting them in 2004 was fortunate. I was depressed at the time and was on the verge of leaving Princeton without finishing my degree. Their kindness helped rejuvenate my spirit to finish the PhD.

I always swing by the Ewerszumrodes when I am passing through Germany, including having spent Christmas with them in 2008 and 2014. And of course, no visit is complete until plenty of Apfelwein is imbibed.